“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”
(Anaïs Nin)
Spring is a time for renewal and your friend in need may be yearning for a fresh start. However, taking that first step requires a boost of confidence. With your support, your friend can start to transform her surroundings and create a nurturing environment to begin the next season of a great new life.
Here are three easy tips for you to suggest to your friend:
- Make space for the “new.” Your friend’s next act needs room to grow. Her home may be filled with photos, mementos or items from her past relationship. Honeymoon photos could be moved off of the mantle place and placed in the closet. You may want to gently suggest that such items be tossed, recycled, stored or even donated. Explain that the cleared space can be filled with items from new experiences. New photos from a recent vacation would be perfect for the living room.
- Change perspective with small steps. Your friend’s home may need an updated look. New bed linens or a throw blanket make a room look inviting. Introducing colors like tangerine orange, ruby red or green grass will lighten the mood of her space. Even cut flowers or new potted plants will refresh the surroundings. Propose these simple changes to your friend – and her outlook will be renewed.
- Reinforce self-value with your friendship. Your friend may be stuck in the pain and the loss of the split. She may not be able to take these steps without your guidance. Suggesting that you join her in the process will ensure success. Organizing her space, selecting some great colors and shopping together will be fun for you both. Your friend will rely on your friendship to shine the light on her self-worth. She’ll also trust your sense of style to help select the perfect new lamp.
Our homes are sanctuaries for rejuvenation. By following these tips, you can influence your friend to create a home where she can feel safe to fully bloom.
